How to choose the right dildo

Believe it or not, dildos have been used since ancient times and there have been quite a few variations over the years. Choosing the right dildo for your needs can be confusing, especially with the huge and varied range of dildos available today.

These days you can find dildos in many sizes and shapes. They can look and feel realistic, but also cute, disguised, wild or artistic. The surface texture can range from smooth to veined, bumpy and of course ribbed. Dildos can have handles and suction cups to make them easier to use. But how do you choose the ideal dildo that gives you and your partner the most pleasure? There are a few things you need to consider when buying a dildo:

• The ideal size of the dildo
• The ideal material of the dildo
• The ideal type of dildo

How do you determine the ideal dildo size?

A common mistake is assuming that bigger is always better. If the dildo is too long, it can hit the cervix and cause pain. If the dildo is too wide, it can stretch the vagina uncomfortably and even cause tears, which can be painful. Make sure you are very clear about what feels comfortable for you or your lover by deciding on the desired size before you buy a dildo. 

The easiest way to determine the right size dildo is with the so-called finger test. Use your fingers to find out what feels good for you. This applies to both the depth of your fingers and the girth. Then use a tape measure to measure both the depth and the circumference. The measurements you get from this indicate the ideal size of the dildo.

What kinds and types of dildos are there?

Smooth dildo

Smooth dildos are made from a variety of materials including, but not limited to, silicone, Pyrex glass, plastic, rubber, elastomer, food-grade vinyl, metal and even wood. A smooth dildo is great for easy insertion because there is less friction than with some of the bumpy or ribbed versions. Smooth dildos are also used for anal stimulation by people who enjoy a gentler touch.

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Double dildo

Double dildos come in different styles. In the past, the only type was one long dildo with two heads. But now there are curved ones that bend and can be used to stimulate the same person anally and vaginally or in different combinations. Double-ended dildos can be used both anally and vaginally.

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Realistic dildo

The term “realistic” refers to the shape and design of the dildo. A realistic dildo looks like a real penis, but that has nothing to do with size or colour. Some people make the mistake of thinking that when a dildo is marketed as realistic, it has the size of the average man’s penis. That’s not the case; it’s really all about the shape.

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Strap-on dildo

A strap-on dildo can be worn by both men and women and is designed for both vaginal and anal penetration.

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Anal dildo

These dildos can also be used for vaginal stimulation, so you might wonder why there is a separate category at all. The ideal anal dildo has a flared base, handle or ring at the end. The reason is that, unlike the vagina, the rectum can grip a sex toy more tightly than the vagina, making it harder to remove. A ring or handle on the dildo can help with this.

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Vibrating dildo

These days there are also dildos with a vibrator. In most cases, the vibration is produced by a built-in vibrator or by a removable bullet in the back of the dildo. A dildo with a built-in vibrator usually has a stronger vibration. 

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Why would you use a dildo?

There are various reasons why someone might choose to use a dildo. A dildo can be used for sexual stimulation and pleasure, both on your own and with a partner. It can also be used to experiment with different sensations and to discover which kind of stimulation you enjoy most. In addition, it can help you explore your sexuality and boost your sexual self-confidence. It’s important to remember that using a dildo is completely optional and personal, and that everyone is free to decide whether it’s something they want to try or not.

Dildo materials

A dildo is not made from just one type of material. The best-selling dildos nowadays are made of glass and PVC, also known as jelly. Nowadays regulations from the authorities are very strict; it’s forbidden to sell dildos that contain so-called softeners and they must be free from phthalates (phthalate-free).

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